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Read Our Stories
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Ed Algya, Pastor
Have you ever heard someone say, “Life’s been good
to me?” That’s the way Margaret and I felt about our life together.
Our relationship began as high school sweethearts
and eventually we married. We soon saw many of our plans materializing.
Margaret was finishing school, we were buying our first house, had a new baby
and a new car. Life was indeed being good to us. The third year we were
married, our second child was born. Just three months later she unexpectedly
and unexplainably died. This event had a big impact on our attitudes and
thoughts toward life and death. Questions started coming up like, what really
happens after death? Is there something else? Are we really in as much control
of our lives as we think?
We had always believed in God, even though He was
usually left on the back burner. We knew He was the One in charge of life and
death, and we wondered if perhaps He as trying to get our attention through our
baby’s death.
Since spiritual things were something we never
talked about, the questions remained unanswered. Our lives got busy again and
the void seemed to fill up. A few years later the “good life” came to a
crashing halt again. I lost my job. This was the second time a circumstance
out of our control changed the course of our lives and threatened our security.
And this was the second time we asked ourselves, “Are we really in as much
control of our lives as we think? How much security do we have? Do changing
circumstances govern our lives? And where, if anywhere, does God fit in to all
of this?” This time we had more opportunity to find answers to our questions
because I couldn’t find a new job. Life didn’t straighten out like I had
hoped. Faced with bills and family needs I was pretty scared, and feeling an
insecurity that I had never experienced. We took a short trip to get away form
the pressures and went to visit my older brother. He had always seemed to be
content and assured of things in his life. He wasn’t striving hard like I was
and didn’t seem to need all the things I thought were necessary for a “good
life”.
Several years earlier he had made a choice to put
God in control of his life. He told us that was where His assurance and
security came from. He showed us what God said in the Bible, “For I know the
plans that I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for
calamity to give you a future and a hope.” [Jeremiah 29:11]
We had always ignored or avoided spiritual
conversations but had been satisfied with going to church and going through
other acceptable motions. Talking about God opened up a whole new aspect to our
relationship, it was like meeting a new part of each other. We found out that
God’s plan for us, ultimately, is to be with Him forever in Heaven, and that
this couldn’t happen unless we met His requirements. Surprisingly, we found out
that He requires perfection, or no sin, and we knew this left us out. The Bible
says that every person is a sinner and that, “The wages (payment) for sin is
death (separation from God) but the free gift of God is eternal life through
Christ Jesus.” [Romans 6:23] God solved our problem 2000 years ago when He paid
the payment for our sin through Jesus’ death. Jesus died so we wouldn’t have to
be Separated from God forever. We learned that we could meet God’s requirement
of freedom from sin if we accepted the fact that through Jesus’ death He paid
for our sins. We could really see how much God loved us through dying for us.
Not only wanting to give us the best life for all eternity, but also to give us
a better life right now. “I came that they might have life and might have it
abundantly.” [John 10:10]
Many of the things we learned were contrary to what
we had always thought. We had thought that God was a loving and forgiving God
and would only send the really bad sinners to hell. We learned that God doesn’t
have any double standards, that any and all sin separated us from Him. He is a
loving and forgiving God to those who personally accept His death for their
sins.
Margaret and I made this choice to let Christ’s
punishment count for us. It wasn’t automatic, we had to willingly choose to
receive His gift and change our attitudes toward God, putting Him in control
instead of us. Making this choice meant choosing a better life than we’ve ever
had. Our security lies in a God who loves us and who has good plans for our
lives, not in changing circumstances or material things. Our relationship is
deeper and more complete than ever before. Since we discovered the spiritual
side of each other and since God is at the center of our relationship, many of
the fears and insecurities that were part of our relationship without God are
gone. We have a standard to live by, to make decisions according to, and to
raise our children in the Bible. The guess work and uncertainties of life are
diminished because God is now able to carry out His plan for us. Perhaps the
most important change of all is that now we know that when we die we’ll be with
Him forever.
We want you to know that God is offering this same
security to you. If you choose to accept His death for your sin and place Him
in control of your life you’ll be choosing a better life for now and the best
for all eternity.
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